Rideshares like Uber and Lyft have become part of daily life for many of us. Whether you’re heading to work, a night out, or just need a lift from the airport, getting in a stranger’s car is something we do without thinking twice. But while these services are convenient, they also come with real safety concerns, especially for women and young riders.
If you're a regular Uber or Lyft user, this guide will walk you through essential, no fluff tips to stay safe before, during, and after your ride.
Before the Ride: Plan Smart
1. Double check the car and driver
Before you get in, match the license plate, driver name, and photo exactly to what’s shown in the app. Ask the driver: "Who are you picking up?" Never offer your name first.
2. Stay visible
Avoid getting picked up in dark or secluded areas. Choose a well lit, public space if possible.
3. Share your trip
Use Uber and Lyft's built in "Share My Trip" feature with a trusted friend or family member so someone knows where you are at all times.
4. Carry discreet self defense tools
Consider carrying legal, non lethal tools like a key knife, safety alarm, or pepper spray alternative. Many of these are TSA safe and keychain sized.
During the Ride: Stay Aware
1. Sit in the back seat
It gives you more personal space and easier access to both side doors if you need to exit quickly.
2. Keep your phone in hand
Have the app open and ready. If you feel uncomfortable, text your shared contact or dial 911 using the emergency feature.
3. Don’t overshare
Be polite, but don’t share personal info like where you live, your relationship status, or travel plans.
4. Trust your gut
If something feels off, don’t ignore it. Ask to end the ride early in a public area or call for help right away.
After the Ride: Protect Yourself
1. Leave a review
Always rate your driver and report any behavior that made you uncomfortable. Your review could protect someone else.
2. Lock in the habit
Make safety your routine, not the exception. The more prepared you are, the more confident you’ll feel getting in any car.
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